This week I purchased my cap and gown. That may not seem like a big deal to some but to me it’s huge. Especailly with everything that I’ve been through.
My freshman year was one of the hardest times of my life. I went away to an out of state university to escape a bad situation and person. I didn’t tell anyone what I was going through and just let it eat me up inside until I finally snapped. I was acting super paranoid and was barely eating or sleeping. My family didn’t know what to do so they took me to the hospital and from there I had a short stay in a behavorial health center. After I was released I had to see a psychiatrist and take meds, which I hated. I also saw a therapist which I actually didn’t mind. She was pretty awesome and after a while I started looking forward to our visits. During this time I also took a class at my local community college and found a job.
My psychiatrist slowly weined me off my meds and I began to return to the old me. By springtime I decided that I was ready to return to university life.
Sometimes I wonder if I returned too quickly because I still had some adjusting to do. My first semester back was still rough and I ended up on academic probation. I did eventually pull my grades up but for the next few years my GPA was on a sliding scale as I struggled with depression.
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By then my outlook on life had changed greatly and I was on operation graduation. I told myself there was no room for failure and worked my ass off to graduate in two years. I took 17 or 18 hours each semester to ensure this and it definitely paid off.
I went from struggling to get a 2.0 to graduating with honors. My collegiate journey has been a rough one but it made me the strong woman I am today and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
If you’re reading this and you’re going through a tough time in your life I want you to know that you can get through it, you’re stronger than you think. There was once a time when I tried to end it all but I’m so glad I didn’t. I’m so glad I failed at that task because then I wouldn’t be where I am today. I’m a living testament of the phrase, “it gets better.” If you’re thinking of harming yourself please find someone to talk to. There are plenty of hotlines and if you don’t want to call one of them then write me and I’ll talk to you. You’ll never know how amazing life can be if you don’t stick around for the ride.
My life definitely changed for the better and I couldn’t be happier.
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Extraordinary! Your testament is proof that with family and the right professionals you can make improvements. Keep making your way up and you will be ok. I believe in you. Congratulations!
Thanks for the support!
This is amazing! Your story, your journey, your beliefs … I’m sooo glad you never stopped trying roomie…. I’ve always believed in you and to see how far you have come and the things you had to go through… You are one of the strongest people I know ! I love ya girl!!! Congratulations !!!! It’s real!!!! U did it!!!!!
Thanks roomie! I love you too!!! And to see how you’ve been progressing in grad school has truly been an inspiration to me! You’re gonna do big things in life, I know it! Can’t wait to see your designs coming down a runway ๐
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Please keep writing your blog, your story helps others! And it shows that you never know what people are going though! Happy to have such a strong and amazing cousin and friend. Love ya
Aww! Love you too boo! And don’t worry, I’m planning on making a comeback very soon! ๐